Thursday, July 23, 2009

Tips for dating professionals

Society has changed so much in the last few decades. We are now living in the fast lane. It is now possible to get the rare fruits at the supermarket just a couple of blocks away. We have grown used to fast food and drive-through diners and purchasing the goods and services online. All this has been done because the lives are getting busier. We have created a way of life that remove the unnecessary steps from doing any task. However there are a few areas in life where the shortcuts cannot do the magic. Dating and relationships is one of the. Finding love takes time and commitment and there are no shortcuts around it. Dating life for professionals can sometimes be tricky because off their busy schedules. These are a few do's and don'ts for dating is a working professional

The do's

1. Opportunities are everywhere. You just have to open your eyes to see singles around you. You should discover local places where others hangout and go there and make yourself accessible toas many people as possible until a conversation starts. Relationships begin with conversations. Conversation is an integral part of making your partner comfortable and having a good conversation is a start of potential relationship.

2. If the topic of worklife comes up, you should be honest and to the point. If you're out socializing with someone, do not end up discussing work the whole time. You should rather use this time to get to know the other person and make a decision on whether you're interested in pursuing this relationship or not. You should use this time to learn about them, understand who they are, their likes and dislikes, their interests and potentially find some common interests which both of you share.

3. Use online dating sites. There lots of dating sites out there geared towards dating professionals. Join a dating site and give it a shot! Dating sites are especially good for people who are intimidated by the idea of approaching the opposite sex. Dating sites provide you with information you want to know, information you want to provide to someone without letting your guard down for rejection.

The Don'ts

1. You're not the only one in the boat. There are a large amount of working professionals who are single and are looking for a loving partner. It might take some effort but it is certainly not impossible to find a professional single who is compatible with you.

2. Don't be scared of rejection. Dating is based on sending and receiving signals, so do not let the fear of rejection come into the way of that. Be your self and do not try too hard to impress someone. Remember that confidence is the most attractive feature and being yourself is the best way to be confident.

3. Do not play head games. If you want to date working professionals, you should realize that they are short on discretionary time. Professional singles often do not like head games and you might turn them off by strictly following and expecting to follow dating rules. Games only confuse your efforts, send mixed signals and can potentially turn off your partner.

Dating professionals is harder than let's say for a musician, but it's not impossible. You can meet professional singles anywhere from a supermarket to a music concert. Remember to keep your eyes open, your ears alert and your mind open to the idea of meeting someone who will love you for who you are.

1 comment:

  1. I agree that you should not follow the conventional "dating rules" and I think that a good condensation would be to simply be yourself. I think this is the most useful peice of advice for anyone using professional dating sites and not having any luck. It's probably because you've been putting an act on.

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